Friday, January 23, 2009

Birds and Birdsong




My grandma used to dream that she was a bird - and in her most recurring dream, she would fly over cornfields to an abandoned barn, sitting lonely in the fall sun. It always sounded like a desolate dream, to me -- but she experienced it joyfully. She told me she would love to be able to fly like a bird.

We'd spend hours looking at picture books of birds, tracing them with pencil and tracing paper - and watching them from her front porch window. And, when she died, I gained possession of two gorgeous green glass birds - cardinals, I think, from the crest on their heads - which I have in my bedroom, and like to think of as grandma and grandpa watching over me.

So, I know she would love this new book by Dr. Miyoko Chu, a professor in the Cornell Lab of Ornithology at Cornell University. I heard her interviewed on a terrific Iowa Public Radio program earlier this week. Its a pop-up book of birds in their natural habitat, with audio of their native songs! Did you know that some birds can actually harmonize with themselves???? Listen in .....

Monday, January 19, 2009

Gene Robinson's Invocation

Huffingtonpost is reporting this about the decision made by the Presidential Inaugural Committee not to ask HBO to air the invocation, given by Gene Robinson, an Episcopal Bishop, and the first openly gay, non-celibate, person to serve in that capacity. I, for one, really missed the opportunity to hear this prayer as part of the celebratory events - I'm grateful to HuffPost and Youtube for providing it for us now. It's a beautiful call to action.

Bless us with tears and anger, indeed.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Our Anniversary


I'm posting my favorite wedding photo, in honor of our eleven years of marriage!

So excited about the Inauguration!

I plan to be watching lots of You-Tube this week, enjoying the inaugural festivities. I am so proud and excited and hopeful that Barack Obama will be our president, that Joe Biden will join him in leadership - and that we are all being called to serve our neighbors in this new government.

If you haven't seen the schedule of events for the inauguration, you can find at Huffintonpost's Big Inaugural News Page.

Monday, January 12, 2009

A picture of Bliss in the Family Bed


This is a photo Aaron took of Wyatt and I nearly 4 years ago - smiling blissfully while sleeping in our family bed. I wanted to post it to illustrate my point about getting good sleep while being a nursing mom, and to make good on my promise to add some visuals to the blog!

Sunday, January 11, 2009

A note about formatting!

This blog is text heavy, I think - and I just want you to know I'm working on it! I want to be able to do the amazing things with photos that Sara Janssen just did on her terrific blog; but I'd settle for simply figuring out how to add more than one picture to my text .... I promise, in the coming weeks, to make the blog more appealing to the eye!

Hunger, Part III: What I'm Cooking Today

My friend, Sabbath, a birth worker in Des Moines, has just requested, via Facebook, the recipes for what I'm cooking today ... My status line indicated I'd be carmelizing some onions, and putting bread up to rise.

The best thing is, I had already planned to come over here and blog about these recipes because they're FRUGAL! And healthy. And yummy.

So -- here's what we're eating this evening (before my Friends of Iowa Midwives Virtual Steering Committee Meeting!).

ONION SOUP -- a riff on a recipe found in one of my favorite cookbooks: The Soup Bible.

You'll need -- 3 lbs of yellow onions, 2 tbs butter (real), 2 tbs olive or canola oil (the lighter the better), 2 - 3 cloves of garlic, 4 - 6 cups of stock (chicken if you use it, light vegetable if you don't, bonus frugality points if you make your own!). Oh, and some brown sugar, salt and pepper, and a dash of vinegar (rice wine or apple cider are best). And I'm throwing in leftover potatoes (from our garden) and parsnips that I roasted for last night's dinner.

You'll do -- in a nice, large, heavy bottomed pot or dutch oven, melt the butter and oil together. Add the onions, which you've already peeled and sliced into rounds, and some salt. Slowly, slowly, slowly cook them - the technique I use is: turn up the heat hella high for about 2 minutes while stirring gently the whole time, getting them all nice and warmed up. Then turn the heat down as low as it goes, or maybe up 1 or 2, and cook for 30 - 90 minutes, stirring every 5 - 10, or 15 - 20 (you'll find I'm not that into precision) - as they turn soft, and then pale yellow, then golden hued. When they get golden hued, add a tbsp of that sugar - light brown works best, white in a pinch, and the 2 - 3 cloves of garlic, crushed. Keep cooking until the onions are darker golden. Then turn off the heat.

About an hour before you want to eat this soup, add the stock and a splash or two of the vinegar. Slowly slowly heat it up again, to a good warm temperature. Salt to taste, pepper, too.

Now this is a darn frugal soup. And Wyatt loves it. Tonight, we will add to it, as I noted above: roasted parsnips and potatoes. Also, some croutons from a bag we have in the cupboard. You could make your own (croutons) but I find that tedious. The recipe book suggests lots of gruyere cheese -- but boy is gruyere expensive, and I don't find that the soup needs any dairy to make it great. If you find that it does, my husband recommends a small spoon full of sour cream. And he's right - especially if you add potatoes, the sour cream is great.

MOLASSES BREAD WITH COOKED GRAINS -- I take this straight from the only cookbook you ever need, the best cookbook in the world: Deborah Madison's Vegetarian Cooking for Everyone. . A great thing about this recipe is that making your own bread is frugal in the extreme (pennies on the dollar to bake instead of buy), its a good workout (kneading bread is hard work!), and this particular recipe uses yesterday's leftovers, too.

You'll need: an envelope of yeast, some sugar, 1/4 unsulfured molasses, 3 tbs canolal, corn or sunflower oil, salt, water, 2 cups all-purpose flour, 3 - 4 cups whole-wheat flour, and 1 1/2 cups leftover cooked graincereal (wheat, rice, oatmeal, seven-grain, etc.) Today, we're using what was left over of an amazing Snowy Saturday morning breakfast of Bob's Red Mill 4-Grain Cereal. (Just a side note: yesterday, I cooked that up, added maple syrup and some milk, and we felt like kings and queens eating that yummy, healthy, cheaper-than-the-packaged-flavored-oatmeal-that-you-buy-in-the-store porridge).

You'll do: stir the package of yeast into a 1/4 cup of warm water, add 1/2 tsp sugar. Set it aside in a warm place until it foams, about 10 minutes. Meanwhile, butter or spray 2 8X10 loaf pans, and oil a big bowl for the dough. Note: This is a great step for kids - Wyatt absolutely adores watching the yeast bubble, and talking about how bread is "alive." In fact, now I feel guilty for doing this while he was asleep this morning - the kid loves to bake bread.

In a big bowl, combine 2 more cups warm water, the molasses, oil, 2 1/2 tsps salt, and the cooked cereal. Add the yesaty water, then the 2 cups of white flour, a cup at a time. Follow with a cup of a time of whole-wheat flour, stirring with a big wooden spoon (or gathering it with your hands) until the dough leaves the side of the bowl. Turn it out onto a floured surface, and knead until it is "smooth, but still a little tacky" (Says Deborah M). Add flour as you need to.

Note -- this is a pretty darn tacky dough. If you keep adding flour, it will get shaggy (which you don't want) and/or too dense (which you also don't want). Just have faith in the bread - adding up to 4 1/2 cups whole-wheat flour, in my experience, is OK.

Turn the dough into the oiled bowl, cover (with a warm damp cloth), and set aside in a warm enough place to rise until doubled - about 1 1/4 hours. In the last 15 minutes of rising, preheat oven to 375. Turn the dough out again and shape it into loaves, put in the loaof pans. Set aside again until doubled, about 40 - 50 minutes.

Bake for 50 minutes.

This is one of our favorite yeast breads. It is versatile (you can vary it almost anyway, depending on what cereal you use), high in iron (molasses!), and yummy. Its also really light, for such a fiber-rich and dense bread. And, it will be great with the onion soup tonight, and even better in the morning with some sweet butter and pumpkin butter (see my pumpkin butter guilt note, below...).

Enjoy!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Hunger, Part II: Lactivism!

Aaron and I practice attachment parenting and natural family living. The only baby book we ever had in our house was by William and Martha Sears, and we found that, for our family, doing things like babywearing, co-sleeping in a family bed, and using non-coercive child guidance (rather than discipline) worked best most of the time.

One of the main manifestations that our approach to parenting and living with Wyatt has taken was breastfeeding. He weaned himself (with a bit of encouragement from mom and dad) when he was 3 1/2 years old.

Quite simply, breast is best! When it is possible for a mom to nurse her baby, both receive tremendous benefits: increased immunity and optimal nutrition for baby, relaxing hormones and often accelerated weight loss for mom, bonding for both. There are potentially no bottles to sterilize, and no cost of buying formula (wow, that saves a ton of money).

If a mom and baby share sleep and nurse on demand through the night, both tend to get better sleep. And, if a mom and baby nurse on an airplane, especially during take-off and landing, the suckling motion actually stops baby's ears from popping, resulting in a happier (quieter!) baby.

So it disturbs me that flight attendants on Allegiant air recently made such a fuss over a mom's attempts to satisfy her baby's hunger.

When a baby is hungry and a mom can satisfy that hunger in the most nutritious, affordable, and comfortable way possible, why on earth would someone want to stop them? This isn't just a "mom" issue, either -- it is a feminist issue. Women's breasts have been objectified by the media for so long and in so many ways that the simple act of feeding a child makes others uncomfortable, seems obscene, might even be taken as erotic. As women reclaim our bodies from objectification, lets reclaim our ability to feed our children, to sate their hungers.

I would love to boycott Allegiant, but don't plan to fly with them anyway, so my boycott is rather meaningless. Instead, I'm going to write to their corporate headquarters in Las Vegas, and demand (calmly and politely) that Allegiant create a family-friendly policy that comports with most state laws and grants women the right to nurse in any public or private place where they are otherwise welcome and permitted.

Maybe you'll join me in this little bit of lactivism?

Friday, January 2, 2009

Happy New Year!

May it be peaceful, creative, safe and sane, for all.